The first date is extremely important because it determines the impression we have of the person we are meeting and vice versa we let the other person understand who we are or how we wish to appear in his eyes.
Research has shown that the place of the first meeting is very important because it creates the atmosphere and determines the energy of the evening.
According to a survey, people choose a place where they can be quiet but also be able to share a meal in each other's company and on this almost a third choose a refined restaurant to impress their partner, on the other hand a quarter choose a traditional trattoria good for creating an easy and pleasant atmosphere. Followed by the rest which focuses on the classic pizzeria.
Yet most people decide to have a coffee with friends to conclude with a splendid walk through the city streets or along the sea in suitable places.
I don't know which of these people you can recognize yourself in, certainly what I recommend to all those who wish to meet a possible partner for the first time is to choose a nice place, which is quiet, pleasant, sober, relaxing and not too noisy; so as not
to hinder communication.
No one wants to shout on their first date or listen to only half of what the other person
says.
On this first date, regardless of the outcome, you will meet someone new, which
should be an enjoyable experience for both of you, no matter what.
Not focusing on the first impression upon arrival is necessary because it allows you not to close your attitude to something you don't like or like about the other person. This helps us try to understand and above all perceive whether or not the other person is willing to continue seeing us or allows us to understand if our meeting was also for us the beginning of a series of subsequent appointments to dedicate to that person .
The fundamental thing is to always be yourself and not hide behind a mask or an identity that we want to give ourselves without this actually being part of our character.
By doing so we risk giving our partner a false expectation regarding our character and not being able to continue managing our emotions, generating an illusion.
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