Trust a MatchMaker

TRUST A MATCHMAKER Simona Muscari specialises in MatchMaking between top couples Luxury Italy

The process of finding a partner is fun and very exciting. The love of our life is in an unexpected place, but it will probably be in the places we frequent most. In reality, it is a matter of having our eyes wide open and being willing to discover the opportunities that life offers us, but looking for a partner in inappropriate places is a guarantee of not finding one.

Specialists assure that before you find a partner, you have to know what you are looking for and what characteristics you want them to have. There are relationships that affect us negatively. Put aside those friendships and relationships that drag you down, that don't let you grow and that are stealing the most important years of your life.

The love of your life will probably not be in the disco, which was in the 80s and 90s when the range of leisure activities was much smaller. There are places where you feel your personality blossoming; during happy hour with friends, in the park, at a concert, in your hobbies, maybe even at work.

Being spontaneous is a good catalyst in relationships and we feel spontaneous in the most everyday places:

- At the gym or in the park, wherever you train, take a good look at your surroundings, don't think about how sweaty they see us at that moment, there is already something in common there: the fact that you are taking care of your health and physique. It is the most relaxed and informal place where you can meet someone.

- In a café where you usually have breakfast or lunch, even if it seems common and lends itself to transient relationships, it may be that Cupid will quickly run away from you. The common thing is that you live or work nearby and have the same taste for the type of food they serve in the place. If you can get a date or a date proposal on the spot, things are on the right track.

- In a bookshop or record shop: when you go in, look at the people there and the books they are reading, this can give you a big clue about their personality, if you also like them, this could be the perfect reason to make a comment.

- In your building or in the same street where you live: if a new neighbour has just arrived, attack! He or she may be single without commitment, which tells us about a person who seeks independence. Take advantage of any excuse to introduce yourself. 

- At a concert, in the supermarket, in a contemporary art museum... these are other alternatives where you can meet your soul mate but...

If you are a person who feels that you have already tried everything or do not have the time to invest in investigating to find a New Love or the love of your life, seek guidance.

Trust a matchmaker. Ask for help from a person who can really advise you, someone who can watch over you, support you but is also able to tell you the truth even if it hurts. Someone who acts as a mentor or advisor to whom you can talk about everything. It will help you not to make the same mistakes as before, and it is always convenient to have someone who sees things "from the outside", without being involved. 

Investing in a matchmaker will save you the time you do not spend on something so important for your personal balance.

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